After I published ‘Banana Split‘, I started to feel anxious and worried my words would be interpreted wrong. Which made me really think about who I really wanted to reach and how I needed it to be read. After having many conversations in my head, I realized I wanted my words to be heard by those people struggling to stay a float with their kids. It is important to me for people to be happy and understand the importance of being happy. By writing my view as a child growing up in a split family, I was hoping to ease those minds that are stressed worrying about how their kids will be. They will be fine. Underlying question is how will the parent be when all is said and done? You love your child more than anything but the bubble of a perfect home (definition: parents together?), is no longer so how can you make it? You will. Your child will be more than okay when they are raised by love!
Life isn’t easy but we have our paths set out and should dig in to start enjoying it. I feel as if we are always constantly treading water when we are trying to stay in this reality we created. This becomes way to complicated when you are trying be happy as you don’t feel like you are feeling real emotion of being actually happy. We let our minds take the wheel when we should really let our hearts take control for a while.
I am now feeling more complete getting these extra words out, I hope I am understood better to some degree. Being happy is beyond a smile and it is the emotion that flourishes love!
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